love yourself

Self loving 

 Loving your self  is the foundation for finding your inner-peace, it's the only way to love other people and your life; so you can enjoy it, it is your way to happiness. 
We should all be more compassionate to ourselves,yes; we all feel broken, wounded, alone at times but  we have to stop being so hard on ourselves, every one make mistakes, who hasn't , it's Ok, to feel the way we're feeling now, we don't have to fight it, we just have to acknowledge it, try to understand it instead of judging it.
So much of our resistance to loving our selves has to do with the shame, the thought that there's something wrong with us for what we're going through; we are all important and we matter, we are valuable, even with all our flaws and weaknesses, therefore we should accept ourselves more and judge it less, and seek less for the approval to feel more confident, more over just stop with the whole comparaisons with others, your best friend can do more than you do or your sisters or close people, this will always keep you feeling inferior and the most important thing is to find courage to share your authentic self and don't have to fake it for deeper connections with others, find something at which you excel, may be you are great with kids and you just don't know that yet, or you are an artistic person; yet you don't know that because you haven't tried it, be more open to new experiences, that's what going to define you as a person, learn to forgive, carrying anger or grief only poisons you, be kind, you might don't know that but every one is fighting sort of battle, be less judgemental on your self and others and last realize that you can't please everyone, not every one will kill you , you won't like every one you meet, that's perfectly fine, be ok with that. Don't ever criticize yourself, don't go around all day thinking "i'm fat" "i'm not smart" or "i'm slow", if you don't love your self in the right way, you won't be able to love your neighbour; you can't be as good as you are supposed to be. Stop hating your self of what aren't, ans start LOVING YOURSELF for what you are. :)