To Fit In

To fit in !

That’s what all of us are looking for , don’t deny this, it’s a fact ! because we’re coming to this world that some think that it’s unfair but the only reason they are thinking this way because the problems they face each day ; may be they have problems at school ; or work ;or even home !

We’re not the same person , all of us are diffrent, no one is similar to the other !

High school is one of the biggest place we see this diffrence between students, let’s say that someone new comes to this high school, there’s a lot of possibilities may be he or she will be accepted due to the car or the brand clothes they own, or they’ll be totaly  rejected in the  high school society just because they don’t have new fast car or pretty clothes ; that’s not fair !

No one has to be classified as « cool » just because there parents could buy them « stuff »

What about « brain » or « the inner_person », is our world change this much, that we started to judje people by the « looks », you may assume that this not a real problem, yet it is owing to the damage that occure to someone by rejecting him ; it’s everlasting ; this rejection may build up to be hatred , may be revange, and we all know the stories of high school, and the damage  that lats. It’s not only with teenagers, even at work sometimes we see this hostility between co-workers, sometimes they through a birthday party and don’t invite you , or go to lunch with even inviting you, people should know that these acts are harmful.

Other’s don’t care about wether they fit in or not, to them is’t all about their harmony with few people may be they know, more over their happiness, they don’t care if they are accepted or not ; the only thing that matter to them is the way they think, and how they are free in the way they dresse ; not having to worry about other’s is great thing, but our world require certain manners that we should learn and comply with

but the question remains is that as humain being; should we seek acceptance by others who may or may not like us, or just act the way we want moreover dresse the way we like and not care about fitting or not! that will be a free life from stress, anxiety!
 At the end i want to tell you that to be nobody but your self is so much better than to put on a diffrent mask every day and fake a new personality you probably hate!